R.S.V.P. and How to Get a Response

R.S.V.P. - How can four innocent letters cause so much trouble? They appear at the bottom of most invitations, and yet their call to action doesn't speak with as much volume as they once did.

The Issue

What does it mean? Are hostesses just putting on airs with the term? Here the issue is presented by the confused and irritated guest, as well as the frustrated hostess.

R.S.V.P. Who do you think is right?

The Basics

Assuming there's a problem with understanding the meaning of the term, here's a basic definition to end the confusion:

R.S.V.P.

Strategies

Unfortunately, many hostesses understand and use the term properly, only to be faced with half of their guest list not responding anyway. What's a confused hostess to do? Here are tips and strategies used by other hostesses who have been challenged by the same problem.

Tip on Timing

No Regrets

A Tricky But Effective Tip

The Conflict

There are always two sides to a situation. And then, of course, you'll find the other side in the comments of both of these situations.

No Cards Enclosed - Here's an argument from a reader who feels that without an official response card, there's no obligation to respond.

R.S.V.P.s Out of Control - This poor person receives too many invitations.

When All Else Fails...

Maybe in this digital world, the best hope we have is to send our informal invitations into their computer mailboxes. It's worth a shot.

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