Would You Leave a Hostess Gift?
Tuesday September 11, 2007
An interesting question was posted in our Entertaining Forum yesterday, and I'm curious what other readers would do. Cindi writes:
"I am going to NYC and usually stay in a friend's apartment. However, on my next trip, they have said they are putting me up in the apartment of someone I met briefly once, who lives in the same apartment building and who is away for the weekend. ...Can anyone give me tips on how to be a good houseguest when I've barely met the person and will not encounter them during the trip. I know to leave the apartment in as good as, if not better than (condition)..., but do I owe this lady a gift?"
I've shared my opinion in the Forum already, but I'd like to know yours, either in the comments below or in the forum.
"I am going to NYC and usually stay in a friend's apartment. However, on my next trip, they have said they are putting me up in the apartment of someone I met briefly once, who lives in the same apartment building and who is away for the weekend. ...Can anyone give me tips on how to be a good houseguest when I've barely met the person and will not encounter them during the trip. I know to leave the apartment in as good as, if not better than (condition)..., but do I owe this lady a gift?"
I've shared my opinion in the Forum already, but I'd like to know yours, either in the comments below or in the forum.
Comments
I think leaving a small gift, such as a bottle of wine, along with a thank you note would be appropriate.
I cannot imagine even asking this question. How much does it cost for a hotel?
This person is willing to allow a person she only met one time to stay in her/his apartment.
A kind gesture of a gift certificate of at least $50.00 to $100.00 would be a thankful gift.
I think a gift in the $20-$30 range is probably appropriate. Leave it in the middle of the coffee table or kitchen table, beautifully wrapped, along with a note or card. $50-$100 seems high to me.
Not a question as to whether to thank with a gift.
Observe her colors and make the gift you send or leave blend in with her decor. Hand towels, napkins, place mats, etc. If money is not personal enough and gifts are your way to go.
I like Patty’s suggestion. Look at the decor and color preferences of the host’s apartment. Leave or send something in the $30.00 range. Also, a gift card to a restaurant or gift shop in the neighborhood would certainly be appreciated. I think a thank you gift for someones hospitality is always in order.